This post is called Durango because that's where I am. Or near enough. We are in a gigantic Airbnb about a 15-minute drive north of Durango, CO for my in-laws' 50th wedding anniversary extravaganza. The whole extended clan is here, extended meaning my in-laws, both their sons, and their families. We had an adventure getting here--our original flight to Denver was canceled, with no explanation, which we discovered at 4:00 the morning we were scheduled to fly at 9. The flight they rebooked us on was unacceptable for a number of reasons and the wait time to talk to an agent was 8 hours. So, after some actually relatively mild freaking out, we booked tickets for the same evening to Phoenix. The flight was smooth enough, we spent the night in a hotel, and drove 7.5 hours the next day, yesterday, to Durango. It was a long drive, but spectacular. We saw cacti and mesas and painted desert, dust storms, rock formations, and tumbleweed. We ate lunch at a truly abysmal Dairy Queen, but w...