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Wow, 2018

It was 25 degrees this afternoon and I made myself go for a walk and I am so damned proud of myself. It is the last day of break and I needed to get some activity. No, this is not some New Year's resolution or anything of the sort. I just needed to get outside and get some exercise and some chilly, chilly sun. I am trying to approach tomorrow, the return to school and work, with the best possible attitude and health. Exercise is a part of that. Notice I'm also writing? Yeah, that's a part of it too.

We have lived our new lives for a number of months now and I am so grateful that we are past worrying about the basics. We know what time to get up, exactly what time we need to leave the house to get the kids to school or the bus stop, what time we need to leave work to be home for them. We know (sort of) what to pack for lunches and how to get homework done before karate or before bed or before the next morning...whatever works on each day. The older kid is happy and the younger kid is fine. (He's happy a lot of the time too; it's just hard for him to admit it.) It's wonderful and freeing to have emotional and cognitive space to think about things other than just getting ourselves through the day. Work is going well (I think) and I'm starting to identify again with my professional self. Things are looking up for 2018!

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